Cancer, the fourth Sign of the Zodiac, is all about home. Those born under this Sign are 'roots' kinds of people and take great pleasure in the comforts of home and family. Cancers are maternal, domestic and love to nurture others. More than likely, their family will be large, too -- the more, the merrier! Cancers will certainly be merry if their home life is serene and harmonious. Traditions are upheld with great zest in a Cancer's household, since these folks prize family history and love communal activities. They also tend to be patriotic, waving the flag whenever possible. A Cancer's good memory is the basis for stories told around the dinner table, and don't be surprised if these folks get emotional about things. Those born under this Sign wear their heart on their sleeve, which is just fine by them.
The mascot of Cancerians is the Crab, and much like this shelled little critter, Cancerians are quick to retreat into their shells if it suits their mood. No wonder these folks are called crabby! For Cancer, it's not that big of a deal, though, since they consider this 'shell' a second home (and they do love home). The flip side of this hiding is that shell-bound Crabs are often quite moody. Further, in keeping with their difficulty in sharing their innermost feelings, it can become a Herculean task to pry a Crab out of its secret hiding place. What to do? Give the Crab time -- eventually these folks will come out to play again. When they do, they'll be the first to say so, in keeping with the Cardinal Quality attached to this Sign. It's said that Crabs are first to laugh and first to cry, so you can bet they'll fill you in.
That shell, by the way, isn't the only tough thing about Crabs. These folks are tenacious and strong-willed and like to get their way. If their well-documented kindness and gentleness doesn't do the trick, however, they're not above using emotional manipulation to make things happen. If that still doesn't work, they'll just go back to their shell and sulk, or find a way to get back at the source of their pain, since Crabs can be rather vindictive. That said, any self-respecting Crab would tell you that they are ultimately motivated by protecting their home and loved ones, a most noble goal.
Emotional and loving
Intuitive and imaginative
Shrewd and cautious
Protective and sympathetic
On the dark side
Changeable and moody
Overemotional and touchy
Clinging and unable to let go
Tuesday, May 27, 2008
Thursday, May 22, 2008
Hunters
Male are hunters!!!!
The indecent proposal never stop. What do they look at a mother of 4. I remember when Din cant get back to me he come up with this "Who wants you? You are old!!! You are a women with 4 kids!!! Do you think man will like you"
I smile and walk away... Alhamdullillah... A challenge that i took that day are really sweet. It reminds me of him when the indecent proposer did not give up.
They know i never entertain those proposal, they know i will not turn up but they dont give up. What if i turn up, what if i accept it?
That will continue to be an "if" in my vocabs for now ...
Since I freed myself from a capsule of being little nice sweet me, since i dare my image in the mirror to be me, since i know what i am really looking at, that was the day i set myself free to be who I am. To have all the bad and weaknesses beaten and sliced. Although once a while i still have the old me but at least the fear is not as huge as before. What i am still lacking was confidence sometimes.
In terms of winning a man, i dont think i have to. I will only create problems as i know i wont be able to free myself so i may as well dont start.
Finally he gave up and send me a message to give my priority to my kids. Yes, and of course their my number one behind me. First of all when i address why he really wanted to see me yesterday was because he was lonely.
You have a wife, you have childrens who will make you lonely no more. Craze for attention i guess is more of the answer. If you dont ask for it, will you get it. Why do they find source instead of addressing matters. He almost married second time but when things dont work out his way he split.
Say for example i come to his way, enjoying every attention, care n pampering he gave, would my life be better? Would his be merrier?? More wives, more childrens... Hey wake up!!! More problems!!!
Because you come to me for an escapism. Running away from your loneliness, your attention crave and so on. I cant tolerate that. I want pure and simple love where you know what you want, accepting and appreciating what you do, what you want and so on...
Am i being emotional or being rationale here???? No one have the answer except me. One can judge me, read me, observe me but one dont know what am i really looking forward to. Because what i say and what i do may varies at certain time n occasion.
Be wise...
The indecent proposal never stop. What do they look at a mother of 4. I remember when Din cant get back to me he come up with this "Who wants you? You are old!!! You are a women with 4 kids!!! Do you think man will like you"
I smile and walk away... Alhamdullillah... A challenge that i took that day are really sweet. It reminds me of him when the indecent proposer did not give up.
They know i never entertain those proposal, they know i will not turn up but they dont give up. What if i turn up, what if i accept it?
That will continue to be an "if" in my vocabs for now ...
Since I freed myself from a capsule of being little nice sweet me, since i dare my image in the mirror to be me, since i know what i am really looking at, that was the day i set myself free to be who I am. To have all the bad and weaknesses beaten and sliced. Although once a while i still have the old me but at least the fear is not as huge as before. What i am still lacking was confidence sometimes.
In terms of winning a man, i dont think i have to. I will only create problems as i know i wont be able to free myself so i may as well dont start.
Finally he gave up and send me a message to give my priority to my kids. Yes, and of course their my number one behind me. First of all when i address why he really wanted to see me yesterday was because he was lonely.
You have a wife, you have childrens who will make you lonely no more. Craze for attention i guess is more of the answer. If you dont ask for it, will you get it. Why do they find source instead of addressing matters. He almost married second time but when things dont work out his way he split.
Say for example i come to his way, enjoying every attention, care n pampering he gave, would my life be better? Would his be merrier?? More wives, more childrens... Hey wake up!!! More problems!!!
Because you come to me for an escapism. Running away from your loneliness, your attention crave and so on. I cant tolerate that. I want pure and simple love where you know what you want, accepting and appreciating what you do, what you want and so on...
Am i being emotional or being rationale here???? No one have the answer except me. One can judge me, read me, observe me but one dont know what am i really looking forward to. Because what i say and what i do may varies at certain time n occasion.
Be wise...
Wednesday, May 21, 2008
Life Path & Destiny....
A week ago i saw her heart fills of blossom but last sunday she told me she cant take it. Too nice, too complementing, too good to be true and too good to hurt her at the same time loving every minute of his attention.
Whatever strucks her affecting myself too. Looking at myself who has been in the same shoe for almost 3 years without looking any difference since the relation took place. What can we 'other woman' do to make them expedite the decision.
Nothing!!! and because of that slowly my trust and believability resides back to a corner of my heart. The hurt are almost have the same effect although you do it in the beginning. She is trying not to cry. She is trying not to fall and stumble because it was just started. But she is very brave to have taken that step to be rationale on the whole episode of life before it become worst.
As worst as mine...
Whatever strucks her affecting myself too. Looking at myself who has been in the same shoe for almost 3 years without looking any difference since the relation took place. What can we 'other woman' do to make them expedite the decision.
Nothing!!! and because of that slowly my trust and believability resides back to a corner of my heart. The hurt are almost have the same effect although you do it in the beginning. She is trying not to cry. She is trying not to fall and stumble because it was just started. But she is very brave to have taken that step to be rationale on the whole episode of life before it become worst.
As worst as mine...
Gem of the eyes, Jewel of the heart
Why do we get affected sometimes. Love strucks if we allow it travel from the eyes right through the heart. When the journey start, brain wont be functioning well. Mind and emotion dont speaks same language.
While we want to be rational it often end to be emotional. And most of the time we let emotions decide than the brain. While the brain is saying no and emotions doesn't let go, it hurts as much as someone just leave you abruptly without saying anything.
While reasoning sometimes takes place but emotions failed to address the matter correctly. It took a courage and willpower to address what loves got to do with it.
Ive been building my trust, comppasion and love towards men again since the fall. But i hardly found believability in finding the reasons where i need to love. What loves are all about?
Love is about giving without expecting any from the other. With that loves are sweeter than expected. How do we achieve in relationship? Indeed very subjective. We tend to love and yet get it in return to make sure what we give are in order felt.
Looking back of what had given to HIM 16 years back. 2 years being in love, 10 years living together loving him unconditionally, and 6 years leaving my live empty without a man doesnt means im out of love.
Fulfillment came from THE ALMIGHTHY giving all sorts of love i needed except man. Yes, he sent me one after another to love but in return i know i can only love but cant be loved the same way i did. When i put it a stop, when i let myself go, flowing with all the love given from family, friends, acquantaince n etc i am more happier. Why because im not expecting. When i expect the same im hurt.
Now a replacement which was build from a friendship is running on a stagnant mode. Im not wanting to have anything else now. Not even assurance that i one day will be married again. 6 years past with lots of consequences and sweetness, i am now a person who knows what i want most in life.
I can travell anytime i like, i can be with whom i like, i can read anything that catch my eyes, i can go out n listen to Shakira fast pace and sway along with the music i love to hear n relief my loneliness when it comes knocking. Yes, community are not happy the way i live my way but what the heck.
Although at time im hungry for attention and need someone just to pamper me but deep in me always alarming that attention might lead me to further kind of shit. And so i grab my car key driving alone in the midst of night finding my soul, my love and eternity. I know HE knows what i want, what i crave badly but perhaps the time has not arrived for me just yet. Patience that i build n keep has made me stronger and being survivor all this while.
Grasping my soul alone with the moonlight and starry nights always heals me, although i dont achieve anything but at least im counting the stars instead of sin. Im a human being, the craving needs hurting me day by day but at least HE hears me well. He drive me into an excellence escapade rather than being a zombie. If i cant find that in a man, at least i found that in my ownself. So i know that IM NOT ALWAYS ALONE...
He is always there for me when i need him. And to him who claimed to love me, you know words aint enuogh... I can say i love you million times but to affects you with my passion and compassion are hard. Bitterness thought me to be carefull always but vulnerability always bring me back to reality that im only human who will not runaway from mistakes.
While we want to be rational it often end to be emotional. And most of the time we let emotions decide than the brain. While the brain is saying no and emotions doesn't let go, it hurts as much as someone just leave you abruptly without saying anything.
While reasoning sometimes takes place but emotions failed to address the matter correctly. It took a courage and willpower to address what loves got to do with it.
Ive been building my trust, comppasion and love towards men again since the fall. But i hardly found believability in finding the reasons where i need to love. What loves are all about?
Love is about giving without expecting any from the other. With that loves are sweeter than expected. How do we achieve in relationship? Indeed very subjective. We tend to love and yet get it in return to make sure what we give are in order felt.
Looking back of what had given to HIM 16 years back. 2 years being in love, 10 years living together loving him unconditionally, and 6 years leaving my live empty without a man doesnt means im out of love.
Fulfillment came from THE ALMIGHTHY giving all sorts of love i needed except man. Yes, he sent me one after another to love but in return i know i can only love but cant be loved the same way i did. When i put it a stop, when i let myself go, flowing with all the love given from family, friends, acquantaince n etc i am more happier. Why because im not expecting. When i expect the same im hurt.
Now a replacement which was build from a friendship is running on a stagnant mode. Im not wanting to have anything else now. Not even assurance that i one day will be married again. 6 years past with lots of consequences and sweetness, i am now a person who knows what i want most in life.
I can travell anytime i like, i can be with whom i like, i can read anything that catch my eyes, i can go out n listen to Shakira fast pace and sway along with the music i love to hear n relief my loneliness when it comes knocking. Yes, community are not happy the way i live my way but what the heck.
Although at time im hungry for attention and need someone just to pamper me but deep in me always alarming that attention might lead me to further kind of shit. And so i grab my car key driving alone in the midst of night finding my soul, my love and eternity. I know HE knows what i want, what i crave badly but perhaps the time has not arrived for me just yet. Patience that i build n keep has made me stronger and being survivor all this while.
Grasping my soul alone with the moonlight and starry nights always heals me, although i dont achieve anything but at least im counting the stars instead of sin. Im a human being, the craving needs hurting me day by day but at least HE hears me well. He drive me into an excellence escapade rather than being a zombie. If i cant find that in a man, at least i found that in my ownself. So i know that IM NOT ALWAYS ALONE...
He is always there for me when i need him. And to him who claimed to love me, you know words aint enuogh... I can say i love you million times but to affects you with my passion and compassion are hard. Bitterness thought me to be carefull always but vulnerability always bring me back to reality that im only human who will not runaway from mistakes.
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
Passion
I had made myself escape to Zeta Bar last weekend while Noelle was around in KL. 3 days on the go running around town and outskirts with her and the kids was fun and tiring. Despite building muscle on my thighs and legs i still can steal time to take a nap. Was too tired. Back wee hours and then chit chating non stop, next day drooling again.
Cant explain the kind of fun i had. It only reminds me few years back when it comes to Friday all of us was already pack n planned. Once i reached home, bathed then we start the journey. Its either a night in Melaka, PD, Seremban or whichever i feel like it. Kids has no objection to it. Infact they just enjoy the journey.
I have not been visiting clubs for quite sometime. I mean good one. Zeta has really offered me peace of mind when the singer was beautiful and energetic with the kind of music i love to hear and sway with. Friday night was just spend an hour when i was only offered limited time to show my face off there.
Saturday nite was where i am, with whom i am, and what i want to be. Music ease my heart away to the top. i dont care who the clubbers are. Although i found few eyes lurking around. While having good company as well as HIM around.
Musics of the ears ease the pain of the heart.
One thing i learn was Gem of the eyes and Jewel of the heart found. Ill will elaborate more on my next blog. I have to pack home. Lazy to go for Sheraton Subang as i need to be with my kids today. Need to addressed certain things.
My next Jakarta trip in the next two weeks and still comtemplating to accept the offer of GREAT SINGAPORE Sale in June. Lets just see after my Jakarta trip.
To you readers, read with open mind and window of the heart will decide should it still through and achieved while delivering.
;-)
Cant explain the kind of fun i had. It only reminds me few years back when it comes to Friday all of us was already pack n planned. Once i reached home, bathed then we start the journey. Its either a night in Melaka, PD, Seremban or whichever i feel like it. Kids has no objection to it. Infact they just enjoy the journey.
I have not been visiting clubs for quite sometime. I mean good one. Zeta has really offered me peace of mind when the singer was beautiful and energetic with the kind of music i love to hear and sway with. Friday night was just spend an hour when i was only offered limited time to show my face off there.
Saturday nite was where i am, with whom i am, and what i want to be. Music ease my heart away to the top. i dont care who the clubbers are. Although i found few eyes lurking around. While having good company as well as HIM around.
Musics of the ears ease the pain of the heart.
One thing i learn was Gem of the eyes and Jewel of the heart found. Ill will elaborate more on my next blog. I have to pack home. Lazy to go for Sheraton Subang as i need to be with my kids today. Need to addressed certain things.
My next Jakarta trip in the next two weeks and still comtemplating to accept the offer of GREAT SINGAPORE Sale in June. Lets just see after my Jakarta trip.
To you readers, read with open mind and window of the heart will decide should it still through and achieved while delivering.
;-)
JANGAN MENIKAH KERANA....
1. Jangan menikah karena harta :
Tidak ada gunanya hidup bergelimangan harta tanpa cinta. Harta dapat datang dan pergi setiap saat. "Cinta" yang sesat dan sesaat dapat diperoleh setiap saat, tapi cinta yang sejati tidak dapat dibeli dengan harta.
2. Jangan menikah karena perasaan asmara :
Rasa tertarik, simpati, naksir, yang merupakan asmara yang sering disalah artikan sebagai cinta. Asmara itu bukan cinta. Asmara dapat cepat berubah oleh rupa, harta, tempat dan keadaan. Asmara itu buta, tidak tahan lama dan tidak tahan uji. Cinta perlu diuji dalam suka dan duka dengan mata terbuka.
3. Jangan menikah karena rupa saja :
Kecantikan yang diluar memang indah, tapi dapat luntur termakan umur. Utamakanlah kecantikan yang di dalam.
4. Jangan menikah karena iba :
lba (rasa kasihan) memang baik dan harus ada dalam hidup kita, tapi tidak boleh menjadi dasar pemikahan. Kasihan dapat habis, tapi kasih tidak berkesudahan.Dasar pernikahan adalah kasih, bukan kasihan
5. Jangan menikah untuk kepuasan sex saja :
Memang sex suci dan penting dalam hubungan suami-istri, namun tidak boleh menjadi tujuan utama dari pemikahan. Sex hanyalah salah satu bagian dari pernikahan. Orang yang hanya mengejar kenikmatan sex akan kecewa dan terjerat oleh kesusahan yang diciptakannya sendiri.
6. Jangan menikah karena paksaan keluarga :
Seorang anak harus berbakti kepada keluarga, namun tidak boleh menyerah dalam hal nikah, kalau mereka memang salah dan anda benar. Berdoalah dan berikanlah penjelasan kepada mereka, jangan dengan kekerasan.
7. Jangan menikah karena desakan usia :
Bila usia sudah menjelang senja dan rekan-rekan sudah berpasangan, orang akan mulai gelisah (terutama pada wanita). Banyak orang akhimya "asal tabrak dan sikat." Hindarilah tindakan tersebut.Sabadah dan yakinilah bahwa Tuhan sudah menyediakan yang terbaik untuk anda. Jangan takut kehabisan jatah dan kadaluarsa.
8. Jangan menikah untuk membalas jasa :
Orang yang telah berbuat baik perlu dibalas, tapi jangan dengan pernikahan. Salah satu hal lain yang tidak boleh dilupakan, dan merupakan yang terpenting adalah jangan menikah tanpa pengertian dan persiapan dengan tindakan yang nyata.
Menikahlah menurut pola rencana Tuhan
Daripada salah dan mengundang derita, lebih baik tidak menikah.
Jika tidak diteguhkan oleh Tuhan. Karena Tuhanlah yang menciptakan manusia sepasang-sepasang.
Tanpa persetujuan Tuhan, tidak mungkin manusia dapat bersatu !
Tidak ada gunanya hidup bergelimangan harta tanpa cinta. Harta dapat datang dan pergi setiap saat. "Cinta" yang sesat dan sesaat dapat diperoleh setiap saat, tapi cinta yang sejati tidak dapat dibeli dengan harta.
2. Jangan menikah karena perasaan asmara :
Rasa tertarik, simpati, naksir, yang merupakan asmara yang sering disalah artikan sebagai cinta. Asmara itu bukan cinta. Asmara dapat cepat berubah oleh rupa, harta, tempat dan keadaan. Asmara itu buta, tidak tahan lama dan tidak tahan uji. Cinta perlu diuji dalam suka dan duka dengan mata terbuka.
3. Jangan menikah karena rupa saja :
Kecantikan yang diluar memang indah, tapi dapat luntur termakan umur. Utamakanlah kecantikan yang di dalam.
4. Jangan menikah karena iba :
lba (rasa kasihan) memang baik dan harus ada dalam hidup kita, tapi tidak boleh menjadi dasar pemikahan. Kasihan dapat habis, tapi kasih tidak berkesudahan.Dasar pernikahan adalah kasih, bukan kasihan
5. Jangan menikah untuk kepuasan sex saja :
Memang sex suci dan penting dalam hubungan suami-istri, namun tidak boleh menjadi tujuan utama dari pemikahan. Sex hanyalah salah satu bagian dari pernikahan. Orang yang hanya mengejar kenikmatan sex akan kecewa dan terjerat oleh kesusahan yang diciptakannya sendiri.
6. Jangan menikah karena paksaan keluarga :
Seorang anak harus berbakti kepada keluarga, namun tidak boleh menyerah dalam hal nikah, kalau mereka memang salah dan anda benar. Berdoalah dan berikanlah penjelasan kepada mereka, jangan dengan kekerasan.
7. Jangan menikah karena desakan usia :
Bila usia sudah menjelang senja dan rekan-rekan sudah berpasangan, orang akan mulai gelisah (terutama pada wanita). Banyak orang akhimya "asal tabrak dan sikat." Hindarilah tindakan tersebut.Sabadah dan yakinilah bahwa Tuhan sudah menyediakan yang terbaik untuk anda. Jangan takut kehabisan jatah dan kadaluarsa.
8. Jangan menikah untuk membalas jasa :
Orang yang telah berbuat baik perlu dibalas, tapi jangan dengan pernikahan. Salah satu hal lain yang tidak boleh dilupakan, dan merupakan yang terpenting adalah jangan menikah tanpa pengertian dan persiapan dengan tindakan yang nyata.
Menikahlah menurut pola rencana Tuhan
Daripada salah dan mengundang derita, lebih baik tidak menikah.
Jika tidak diteguhkan oleh Tuhan. Karena Tuhanlah yang menciptakan manusia sepasang-sepasang.
Tanpa persetujuan Tuhan, tidak mungkin manusia dapat bersatu !
Friday, May 16, 2008
Self Values
How do we value ourself?? In accordance to what people think, in accordance to what our parents set for us or be it in accordance what you want in the first place.
Many of us forgets where to start first. Human tends to pleased others more in the first place than ownself. I did that before. It give me kind of satisfaction in me. What drives me in doing that? I don't know, perhaps when someone appreciate and feel happy of what we did that gives us sense of belonging and happiness.
But how long would we satisfied doing that and not having it the same way in return? Its like have a one way street, clapping with one hand and so on.
The secret of giving is never expecting a return. When expectation does not achieved it hurts ourself. At the end of the day we are being sulky.
I tried most of things i scare to do last time. Testing my strengths, patience, hatred and anger are not easy. Especially when you dont have anyone to turn to. I mean u can't shoot your friend with certain question. Like you cant ask ur husband about another man attitude, you cant ask your wife why her hands is so rough while the other lady you saw in the goldsmith shop is so smooth when you shop for her anniversary ring, and you cant ask your mom why cant she cook yummilicious like your indian neighbour.
Gathering few people thoughts about certain issue and reasoning why they think differently on the same issue makes me wonder sometimes. Why i can refuse many invitations but accepting one without objection. Why i can continue being friends or i can just ignored if they forgets. I will make few attempts to make them remember me. Once, twice, thrice and finally if theres no answer let them find me instead.
Life is more beautiful if you make it simpler. True at times i only look at it bitterly. Because i dont want to be in that shoe again. If im labelled without being analysed before further get to know session, i would just accept it.
At the end of the day people know how to make their own judgement.
Many of us forgets where to start first. Human tends to pleased others more in the first place than ownself. I did that before. It give me kind of satisfaction in me. What drives me in doing that? I don't know, perhaps when someone appreciate and feel happy of what we did that gives us sense of belonging and happiness.
But how long would we satisfied doing that and not having it the same way in return? Its like have a one way street, clapping with one hand and so on.
The secret of giving is never expecting a return. When expectation does not achieved it hurts ourself. At the end of the day we are being sulky.
I tried most of things i scare to do last time. Testing my strengths, patience, hatred and anger are not easy. Especially when you dont have anyone to turn to. I mean u can't shoot your friend with certain question. Like you cant ask ur husband about another man attitude, you cant ask your wife why her hands is so rough while the other lady you saw in the goldsmith shop is so smooth when you shop for her anniversary ring, and you cant ask your mom why cant she cook yummilicious like your indian neighbour.
Gathering few people thoughts about certain issue and reasoning why they think differently on the same issue makes me wonder sometimes. Why i can refuse many invitations but accepting one without objection. Why i can continue being friends or i can just ignored if they forgets. I will make few attempts to make them remember me. Once, twice, thrice and finally if theres no answer let them find me instead.
Life is more beautiful if you make it simpler. True at times i only look at it bitterly. Because i dont want to be in that shoe again. If im labelled without being analysed before further get to know session, i would just accept it.
At the end of the day people know how to make their own judgement.
Thursday, May 15, 2008
Besties
I have a chance to go for a short trip to Jakarta last month. I was trying to get her to come with me for many times but it seems she is not interested to come. It was told to the other friends who always goes there on a good deal of fares. 4 of us went from 19th to 21st when she has something on. I was on a runnaway basis i guess when i took the offer.
Before that she send me a long email which invite my tears again of what she feels towards me, towards my action and towards the whole situation taken now. Ive been muting myself, ive been making a distance, ive been making an effort to heal myself without her noticing it.
But i know she is smart enough bcos we have been frens for more than 10 years. I know she feels me when im sobbing on my own. she always caught me crying when she is not suppose to call me that time. I believe god must have been nice to connect me with her in that way to make me smile and cheerful again.
I never want to question what i have done to her. Its very minimal to me The distant i made was to make her stronger n have more varieties of friend. With her i have grown my social networks, acquaintance, and good personal skills basically on self confidence.
She without fails always want me to look up myself high even we have differences in so many ways. Agree i cant find that quality in other friends. I cant elaborate more on that.
What makes me wanted to talk about this was because of my question last night. My last week conversation with her was highlighted in my centre of attention. Some one asked her that we have been friends for very long. Is there any chances of us liking the same person at the same time????
With that question i post her sms of her well being and when is her coming back from Swiss. Her answer continue after one another and the peak was "yes i like him bcause " "please refer next sms". From there i see her eyes glittering with joy, her heart jingling with music, flowers is blooming everywhere.
We were talking during the whole journey to KLIA about the same person. About her dinner, about the things they talked about. About how different he could be from some of them.
Perhaps when it comes to men subject we are very much sceptical about it. Why?????
From the sms ive gathered many things. After alarming my thoughts and view the danger of liking a same person. I told myself to back off. I myself dont understand why i am eargerly interested to know about the same person. When she told me that they are taking her to an occasion n taking me along, i straight away says yes. While she stil cant believe why i said yes n keep on repeating that i would back off last minute n etc.
I explained her some short n simple thoughts i have "nak keluar dengan org pun must kena dgn insticnt" Yeah, i dont simply accepted anyone invitation. Yes, im not choosy but the person must have some criteria and attention that create my temptation and i allow myself to know off. Personal trait i should say.
Now changing the interest to be more of a friend would be the best action i could do. By letting him know yesterday what makes me accepted the invitation was the first bold move ive ever done.
Yes, im known to be a bitter sweet person with thousand and one character. When other people are down n wanting others to help, I would rather be alone driving in a long drive, be on the beach letting the breeze slapping my face and blasting loud music to heal the pain im going through.
Why am i sceptical towards men, why am i bitter to any invitation of coffee tea or me issue. All the pain that i have are answerable to her. While no man can understand what woman want, there she is to sooth n calm one heart that shattered into pieces.
Now im hoping he can make her smile again while she is guarding her heart and he will make her mellow on the terms of accepting one man as and individual with their own specialities.
Yes, i do believe in that.
He has a blurry kind face that you cant predict what he is thinking but in writing a long message I already know that this person is passionate in what he is doing. (perhaps im wrong yeah) But its too early to comment further. I just want him to know he does catch my attention to know more of him, to understand his kind of manly behaviour and to be of his friend if i may have the chance.
But to my dearest friend i cant forgo more than i should have. I am thankful for the opportunity of this test and im thankful for i can accept it openly from the bottom of my heart. Yes, i want her to feel the happiness of having someone to understand her attitude, thinking and respecting her for who she is as a person.
Of all the girlfriends i have, no matter how hurt sometime her words slicing me, but she is still the nicest person i ever have in life. No, she does not know how much i appreciated her although she feels i neglected her when i was quiet in my space zone.
I never does that, she was never far away from my thoughts, its just that i want to heal the hurt i have towards her. No one understood what i have for her although i talked abt her sometime. Its hurting to know im not a good friend who doesnt know how to look after a nicest friend.
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On the personal self of mine, the walls n barrier that i created in my heart before are hacken down for awhile but suddenly it grows up again all of a sudden after the recent commotion at home. Yes i was down, yes i was hurt but one thing i am happy although it hurted so much that ive seen mother love finally flowing.
How much can a single parent hold on to community social issue. Knowing me going early morning and come back at night, how much time would i have for my children, friends, family and others? What about myself??? Yes, malays are very sceptical but why dont they think first before they talked about it, think about and act on itt?
Anyway, i still lead my life as usual. Yes, i managed to hide all the feelings deep inside me. I managed to burried every hurts ive carry for the sake of my children. i want them to know, i want mom to know, the reason i lived today was my kids, was her, was my dad as long as i can still walk with pride and dignity.
Yes, ive done mistake in life, yes, ive neglected myself, yes, ive neglected my feeling and now i want to live being happy on only what i think after i thought of it, after i share it with certain people that i want to and people that i value.
Love please dont leave me just as yet. I still need you love to love my kids, my family, my friends and my passion...
God help me
Amin
Before that she send me a long email which invite my tears again of what she feels towards me, towards my action and towards the whole situation taken now. Ive been muting myself, ive been making a distance, ive been making an effort to heal myself without her noticing it.
But i know she is smart enough bcos we have been frens for more than 10 years. I know she feels me when im sobbing on my own. she always caught me crying when she is not suppose to call me that time. I believe god must have been nice to connect me with her in that way to make me smile and cheerful again.
I never want to question what i have done to her. Its very minimal to me The distant i made was to make her stronger n have more varieties of friend. With her i have grown my social networks, acquaintance, and good personal skills basically on self confidence.
She without fails always want me to look up myself high even we have differences in so many ways. Agree i cant find that quality in other friends. I cant elaborate more on that.
What makes me wanted to talk about this was because of my question last night. My last week conversation with her was highlighted in my centre of attention. Some one asked her that we have been friends for very long. Is there any chances of us liking the same person at the same time????
With that question i post her sms of her well being and when is her coming back from Swiss. Her answer continue after one another and the peak was "yes i like him bcause " "please refer next sms". From there i see her eyes glittering with joy, her heart jingling with music, flowers is blooming everywhere.
We were talking during the whole journey to KLIA about the same person. About her dinner, about the things they talked about. About how different he could be from some of them.
Perhaps when it comes to men subject we are very much sceptical about it. Why?????
From the sms ive gathered many things. After alarming my thoughts and view the danger of liking a same person. I told myself to back off. I myself dont understand why i am eargerly interested to know about the same person. When she told me that they are taking her to an occasion n taking me along, i straight away says yes. While she stil cant believe why i said yes n keep on repeating that i would back off last minute n etc.
I explained her some short n simple thoughts i have "nak keluar dengan org pun must kena dgn insticnt" Yeah, i dont simply accepted anyone invitation. Yes, im not choosy but the person must have some criteria and attention that create my temptation and i allow myself to know off. Personal trait i should say.
Now changing the interest to be more of a friend would be the best action i could do. By letting him know yesterday what makes me accepted the invitation was the first bold move ive ever done.
Yes, im known to be a bitter sweet person with thousand and one character. When other people are down n wanting others to help, I would rather be alone driving in a long drive, be on the beach letting the breeze slapping my face and blasting loud music to heal the pain im going through.
Why am i sceptical towards men, why am i bitter to any invitation of coffee tea or me issue. All the pain that i have are answerable to her. While no man can understand what woman want, there she is to sooth n calm one heart that shattered into pieces.
Now im hoping he can make her smile again while she is guarding her heart and he will make her mellow on the terms of accepting one man as and individual with their own specialities.
Yes, i do believe in that.
He has a blurry kind face that you cant predict what he is thinking but in writing a long message I already know that this person is passionate in what he is doing. (perhaps im wrong yeah) But its too early to comment further. I just want him to know he does catch my attention to know more of him, to understand his kind of manly behaviour and to be of his friend if i may have the chance.
But to my dearest friend i cant forgo more than i should have. I am thankful for the opportunity of this test and im thankful for i can accept it openly from the bottom of my heart. Yes, i want her to feel the happiness of having someone to understand her attitude, thinking and respecting her for who she is as a person.
Of all the girlfriends i have, no matter how hurt sometime her words slicing me, but she is still the nicest person i ever have in life. No, she does not know how much i appreciated her although she feels i neglected her when i was quiet in my space zone.
I never does that, she was never far away from my thoughts, its just that i want to heal the hurt i have towards her. No one understood what i have for her although i talked abt her sometime. Its hurting to know im not a good friend who doesnt know how to look after a nicest friend.
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On the personal self of mine, the walls n barrier that i created in my heart before are hacken down for awhile but suddenly it grows up again all of a sudden after the recent commotion at home. Yes i was down, yes i was hurt but one thing i am happy although it hurted so much that ive seen mother love finally flowing.
How much can a single parent hold on to community social issue. Knowing me going early morning and come back at night, how much time would i have for my children, friends, family and others? What about myself??? Yes, malays are very sceptical but why dont they think first before they talked about it, think about and act on itt?
Anyway, i still lead my life as usual. Yes, i managed to hide all the feelings deep inside me. I managed to burried every hurts ive carry for the sake of my children. i want them to know, i want mom to know, the reason i lived today was my kids, was her, was my dad as long as i can still walk with pride and dignity.
Yes, ive done mistake in life, yes, ive neglected myself, yes, ive neglected my feeling and now i want to live being happy on only what i think after i thought of it, after i share it with certain people that i want to and people that i value.
Love please dont leave me just as yet. I still need you love to love my kids, my family, my friends and my passion...
God help me
Amin
Wednesday, April 16, 2008
No String
I was posed with a question "what do u think of no strings attached relationship?"
So far my answer is always no. i dont believe in relations without feelings and emotions. That's not relationship. That is only way of an escapism to have someone to attend to you without understanding her feelings.
They want their needs and wants to be heard but they arent hearing what you want.
Why do they think women are cheap? Because some women shows that trait.
Monday, April 07, 2008
Repost from MySpace :Young, Single and Bachelor
Mood:Freaking Raunchy
“Daripada I beri you duit beli telefon, lebih baik I beri you duit beli cincin. Kita kawin lagi bagus luv”. I just laugh and stifle at the screen. He is still trying. He gave up once. When theres many outings in groups for drinks, snooker and music over pub. When one day I came with Zahar to one of our frens stalls in gombak, he kind of slowed down chatting with me and become quiet after that.
Well I told everyone very clear, im not looking for a mate, boyfriend or husband in net. I was just looking for friend and extending my networking. I don’t have hidden agenda. Im not an opportunist nor a seeker of one attention. You came knocking, I’ll welcome you. You have reason to be here? So do I, but my clear reason is stated. Besides that im an open book, and as clear as crystal. I have nothing to hide, nor looking for something to fill in the gap. Basically I have you as friend just to fill in the blanks, to tone down the stress due to my bz job and exchange views and opinion. Besides questioning to prove the survey we did is right on track. Which was always successful.
There will be many reason why I avoid young and bachelor male. Its not going to be fair to him, his parents or his future. I will age, I am a mother and I have commitment. I wont have all the time in the world to breed his children is one big reason. At this age considering about my health is more important. I know god knows better but its not wrong to consider his age and my age at this moment. He is at the peak of his sex life and im going to be menopause soon. When he is back like an adult to enjoy life and being successful, im already at the edge of waiting for time to perform my haj and waiting for my creator to invite me back in his den.
Next reason, being a mother of four will always taking all my time to fulfill their wants and needs. I would love to give them the best and will not consider to add another cluster to be divided amongst them. That fair enough or perhaps not now while they need the best attention of me. It’s a no no fullstop!! That’s my wish as for now.
My commitment to my children as I made the vow when I accepted my first marriage was to take care of the zuriat that given by HIM in my hand. That was carried by me for 9 months and 9 days. To be taken care of till the day they can manage themselves one day, insyaallah.
Many men came. Some are pure seeking for companion, some are just seeking for bed partner and some was just pure looking for friendship. I accept them as it is. But to be accepted in my life like Zahar was far away from my thoughts. How did I fall? How I take that in my box of life? I don’t know. I don’t wish to take the headache again of manipulating myself, life and mind to create a space, place and piece of heart for any at the moment.
Cant say anything much because god knows better for me tomorrow. HE granted one but he take it back. HE lend me one but just for a test he said and then HE decided its not suitable for me and HE send another woman for him. Now im glad that my ex has gotten himself a girlfriend which now means I can be his friend who listen or even talk to him like old days. As for the sake of our children we come to a mutual term that we talk should the subject need to be shared. Ive seen him smiling more sweeter while talking to me. That’s what I want. Not someone yelling, accusing or harassing. He has become the most handsome person I know 13 years ago again with his smile. I have run away from the first topic.
Back to my story, I am thinking fairly as his mother would rather have single female to be the partner of her son. Which can be shared of with them when they are old. To grant them many grandchildren if possible. Every mom would want the best for their children which I respect them. It same goes to my mom too. She has been different lately. More sensitive to what I feel and need. Im glad patience is always the key to succeed and god always listen if you ask HIM passionately. Im glad HE did. Alhamdullillah.
Or I have this in my raunchy mind since I was married. Why don’t my husband find another woman and marry her so that I have a space for myself sometime. He can spend his time with another woman of his choice and its legal. I did ask him to find one. But he refused. “I have you, why should I need another one”. I fulfill every needs that he want. I cater time, space and everything in between my bz time as a mother, daughter, friend, niece, employee and importantly as a wife.
In my tired day, I never failed to smile, laughed, giggled with my colleagues, friends, relative, childrens and him. Was I missing those days? Practically im still the same. Its just the lack of a husband. Other than that? None.
Widi make me laugh yesterday out of my sleepy mood. He was telling his experience in the hospital. Besides taking the pain he has live entertainment and we shared that last nite over tea and nasi lemak.
Nina was laughing non stop, but arip was so cool, perhaps he was tired. Chelli pulak giggling je. Hmmm missed out some one there. She is in penang for an assignment. I receive beautiful photos earlier from rose and reposted the “GIRLS DAY OUTING”. The colours of ME was really nice n turns out well.
Why aren’t us taking picture when the adventure explored. It will be next. Mind was raging with ideas of stomping my feet to Orchard road soon. Rom is tempting me to go with her. Besides those beautiful ladies is waiting to have me there. Would I then see many people on the street still. Would I be pissed to see them romping on the road? Im still thinking, I would just hop a bus from Melaka and get straight to Lion City. I missed Merlion on my first visit. I want to make sure Im gonna take pics from there. I have about S$800 still in hand which I hardly used on my first visit. 4 tshirts, 2 fridge magnet n some other few items. Not even S$200 finish.
Boss please grant me a leave. I want to please myself this time. Walking, rambling, wondering, taking pictures, meeting people and have hell out of fun. It would be fun for me. Rom cant wait for the answer. So do I. God please let me have this wish. Grant me another mercy please.
But deep in there an itch question, will I meet roslinah on the street. Shit! Whenever heart is saying something, im sure somehow it will be happening.
Im gonna ask boss again. I will have to go, and I want to make it happen. Suddenly the visual of the lingering eyes popping. With the smile of course. Argh go away mister sexy smile, I aint needing you here. But the memories are welcome. *sigh*.
The lingering eyes wont go. I have to go, so that the eyes will reside my bedside.
Tomorrow I will ramble about the married man decent proposal. Will I consider that? I will have to seek for an answer with Istikharah again. Insyaallah, will meet again friends. Till then, sweet dreams.
“Daripada I beri you duit beli telefon, lebih baik I beri you duit beli cincin. Kita kawin lagi bagus luv”. I just laugh and stifle at the screen. He is still trying. He gave up once. When theres many outings in groups for drinks, snooker and music over pub. When one day I came with Zahar to one of our frens stalls in gombak, he kind of slowed down chatting with me and become quiet after that.
Well I told everyone very clear, im not looking for a mate, boyfriend or husband in net. I was just looking for friend and extending my networking. I don’t have hidden agenda. Im not an opportunist nor a seeker of one attention. You came knocking, I’ll welcome you. You have reason to be here? So do I, but my clear reason is stated. Besides that im an open book, and as clear as crystal. I have nothing to hide, nor looking for something to fill in the gap. Basically I have you as friend just to fill in the blanks, to tone down the stress due to my bz job and exchange views and opinion. Besides questioning to prove the survey we did is right on track. Which was always successful.
There will be many reason why I avoid young and bachelor male. Its not going to be fair to him, his parents or his future. I will age, I am a mother and I have commitment. I wont have all the time in the world to breed his children is one big reason. At this age considering about my health is more important. I know god knows better but its not wrong to consider his age and my age at this moment. He is at the peak of his sex life and im going to be menopause soon. When he is back like an adult to enjoy life and being successful, im already at the edge of waiting for time to perform my haj and waiting for my creator to invite me back in his den.
Next reason, being a mother of four will always taking all my time to fulfill their wants and needs. I would love to give them the best and will not consider to add another cluster to be divided amongst them. That fair enough or perhaps not now while they need the best attention of me. It’s a no no fullstop!! That’s my wish as for now.
My commitment to my children as I made the vow when I accepted my first marriage was to take care of the zuriat that given by HIM in my hand. That was carried by me for 9 months and 9 days. To be taken care of till the day they can manage themselves one day, insyaallah.
Many men came. Some are pure seeking for companion, some are just seeking for bed partner and some was just pure looking for friendship. I accept them as it is. But to be accepted in my life like Zahar was far away from my thoughts. How did I fall? How I take that in my box of life? I don’t know. I don’t wish to take the headache again of manipulating myself, life and mind to create a space, place and piece of heart for any at the moment.
Cant say anything much because god knows better for me tomorrow. HE granted one but he take it back. HE lend me one but just for a test he said and then HE decided its not suitable for me and HE send another woman for him. Now im glad that my ex has gotten himself a girlfriend which now means I can be his friend who listen or even talk to him like old days. As for the sake of our children we come to a mutual term that we talk should the subject need to be shared. Ive seen him smiling more sweeter while talking to me. That’s what I want. Not someone yelling, accusing or harassing. He has become the most handsome person I know 13 years ago again with his smile. I have run away from the first topic.
Back to my story, I am thinking fairly as his mother would rather have single female to be the partner of her son. Which can be shared of with them when they are old. To grant them many grandchildren if possible. Every mom would want the best for their children which I respect them. It same goes to my mom too. She has been different lately. More sensitive to what I feel and need. Im glad patience is always the key to succeed and god always listen if you ask HIM passionately. Im glad HE did. Alhamdullillah.
Or I have this in my raunchy mind since I was married. Why don’t my husband find another woman and marry her so that I have a space for myself sometime. He can spend his time with another woman of his choice and its legal. I did ask him to find one. But he refused. “I have you, why should I need another one”. I fulfill every needs that he want. I cater time, space and everything in between my bz time as a mother, daughter, friend, niece, employee and importantly as a wife.
In my tired day, I never failed to smile, laughed, giggled with my colleagues, friends, relative, childrens and him. Was I missing those days? Practically im still the same. Its just the lack of a husband. Other than that? None.
Widi make me laugh yesterday out of my sleepy mood. He was telling his experience in the hospital. Besides taking the pain he has live entertainment and we shared that last nite over tea and nasi lemak.
Nina was laughing non stop, but arip was so cool, perhaps he was tired. Chelli pulak giggling je. Hmmm missed out some one there. She is in penang for an assignment. I receive beautiful photos earlier from rose and reposted the “GIRLS DAY OUTING”. The colours of ME was really nice n turns out well.
Why aren’t us taking picture when the adventure explored. It will be next. Mind was raging with ideas of stomping my feet to Orchard road soon. Rom is tempting me to go with her. Besides those beautiful ladies is waiting to have me there. Would I then see many people on the street still. Would I be pissed to see them romping on the road? Im still thinking, I would just hop a bus from Melaka and get straight to Lion City. I missed Merlion on my first visit. I want to make sure Im gonna take pics from there. I have about S$800 still in hand which I hardly used on my first visit. 4 tshirts, 2 fridge magnet n some other few items. Not even S$200 finish.
Boss please grant me a leave. I want to please myself this time. Walking, rambling, wondering, taking pictures, meeting people and have hell out of fun. It would be fun for me. Rom cant wait for the answer. So do I. God please let me have this wish. Grant me another mercy please.
But deep in there an itch question, will I meet roslinah on the street. Shit! Whenever heart is saying something, im sure somehow it will be happening.
Im gonna ask boss again. I will have to go, and I want to make it happen. Suddenly the visual of the lingering eyes popping. With the smile of course. Argh go away mister sexy smile, I aint needing you here. But the memories are welcome. *sigh*.
The lingering eyes wont go. I have to go, so that the eyes will reside my bedside.
Tomorrow I will ramble about the married man decent proposal. Will I consider that? I will have to seek for an answer with Istikharah again. Insyaallah, will meet again friends. Till then, sweet dreams.
Thursday, April 03, 2008
Mind Boggling
Sukarnya untuk menjadi diri sendirikan... kadang2 kita terpaksa menipu walaupun kita tak mahu demi menjaga hati orang keliling. Dah lama aku tak menanggis...
Aku tidak lagi merasa sedih. Aku sebenarnya bahagia. Ada insan yang melayan jiwaku dengan sabar. Dulu lawanku yang selalu buat kerenah tetapi sekarang aku... aku yang ingin merasakan kelainan... merasakan diri dilayan, disayang dan segala yang ku perlukan.
Cuma yang satu aku masih tetap disitu.......
Aku tidak lagi merasa sedih. Aku sebenarnya bahagia. Ada insan yang melayan jiwaku dengan sabar. Dulu lawanku yang selalu buat kerenah tetapi sekarang aku... aku yang ingin merasakan kelainan... merasakan diri dilayan, disayang dan segala yang ku perlukan.
Cuma yang satu aku masih tetap disitu.......
Thursday, March 13, 2008
School Holiday
Mood: Fresh
I was away since Sunday to the beach. The place i always long to be. I was feeling good to be back to the place that soothe and calm me emotionally and physically. I feel fresh, beautiful and radiant.
Simply because I got to cook for my children before we take off and take few things with us to eat during the outings.
Thursday, March 06, 2008
Respect
Mood: Bitchy
How deep is your understanding when you say you know your best friend, girl friend or boy friend.
Some people claim they are a good friend to their friend but they can't give their advice and opinions. Respectful friends will listen and hear out the pro and cons but will decide according to what they feel and think. And as a good friend or someone close to her/ him would respect what ever her/ his decision taken by her/him.
"You are attracted to me Lyenna?" I was asked...
"I like you, attracted ermm... nope!"
"you dont have to be nice, just say it" he replied
"i just said what i feel, nothing more nor less"
and the conversation continues and make me feel cornered to the point i have to tell him.
"you know what, Ive been nice to you all this while becoz i care abt people feelings but now i have to tell you this.... "
"i hate being pushed and you are one of them, so with that excused given to you all this while was the answer of why i never agree to any date, appoinment or saying yes when R asked me to come for dinner with you"
"you want me to be blunt? There you go. I'll go or say yes to anyone i like or feel comfortable with and it depends on when and how my moods are"
They dont have to be handsome or pretty to be with me, they can enjoy all night long sharing tales and story if i feel i want to grant my precious time. But since you want me to follow and suit you i guess i have problems with that. Not just you! Its anyone.
I have my own priority and its my prerogative on how i should manage it. I know i've been running away. I dont mind making friends but i mind when that friends have something beyond. Im sorry i cant entertain that.
Relationship put me in a lots of difficulties and emotional swing. I just want the shortcuts or the highway which is long but smooth, meaning be friend but not emotion bondage. Scared, yes i am. Fall? Yes, i can easily because of my vulnerability. Hence, i avoid being in one. I just want what i want now. Nothing more, nothing less.
I am in a middle of something. I would just give myself few more months and then ill decide which path suits me best...
I know i want something to hold on but if that person cant open the umbrella wide then i cant force anything into his nor mine. I let the flow brings me where i should be. I wont be stressing myself again to hurt me. No more!
I just enjoy the attention, enjoy they pampering me, enjoy them being around me, but please dont come near, ill fly again like a bird. Once i get myself bored at certain place i'll fly again further or back to the same place i 've been. I like it, I stay longer, I dont, i'll move on again.
What stays?? Treasure of a friendship, you can be there for it then be there. You can't, you have a choice. Dont waste it. Yes life is short. I do it my way...
How deep is your understanding when you say you know your best friend, girl friend or boy friend.
Some people claim they are a good friend to their friend but they can't give their advice and opinions. Respectful friends will listen and hear out the pro and cons but will decide according to what they feel and think. And as a good friend or someone close to her/ him would respect what ever her/ his decision taken by her/him.
"You are attracted to me Lyenna?" I was asked...
"I like you, attracted ermm... nope!"
"you dont have to be nice, just say it" he replied
"i just said what i feel, nothing more nor less"
and the conversation continues and make me feel cornered to the point i have to tell him.
"you know what, Ive been nice to you all this while becoz i care abt people feelings but now i have to tell you this.... "
"i hate being pushed and you are one of them, so with that excused given to you all this while was the answer of why i never agree to any date, appoinment or saying yes when R asked me to come for dinner with you"
"you want me to be blunt? There you go. I'll go or say yes to anyone i like or feel comfortable with and it depends on when and how my moods are"
They dont have to be handsome or pretty to be with me, they can enjoy all night long sharing tales and story if i feel i want to grant my precious time. But since you want me to follow and suit you i guess i have problems with that. Not just you! Its anyone.
I have my own priority and its my prerogative on how i should manage it. I know i've been running away. I dont mind making friends but i mind when that friends have something beyond. Im sorry i cant entertain that.
Relationship put me in a lots of difficulties and emotional swing. I just want the shortcuts or the highway which is long but smooth, meaning be friend but not emotion bondage. Scared, yes i am. Fall? Yes, i can easily because of my vulnerability. Hence, i avoid being in one. I just want what i want now. Nothing more, nothing less.
I am in a middle of something. I would just give myself few more months and then ill decide which path suits me best...
I know i want something to hold on but if that person cant open the umbrella wide then i cant force anything into his nor mine. I let the flow brings me where i should be. I wont be stressing myself again to hurt me. No more!
I just enjoy the attention, enjoy they pampering me, enjoy them being around me, but please dont come near, ill fly again like a bird. Once i get myself bored at certain place i'll fly again further or back to the same place i 've been. I like it, I stay longer, I dont, i'll move on again.
What stays?? Treasure of a friendship, you can be there for it then be there. You can't, you have a choice. Dont waste it. Yes life is short. I do it my way...
Wednesday, March 05, 2008
Reasons to love a Woman
Category: Life
You can feel her CARE in a form of a Sister
You can feel her WARMTH in a form of a Friend
You can feel her PASSION in a form of a Beloved
You can feel her DEDICATION in a form of a Wife
You can feel her DIVINITY in a form of a Mother
You can feel her BLESSINGS in a form of a Grandmother
Yet she is so Tough too...
Her heart is so Tender...
So Naughty...
So Charming...
So Sharing...
So Melodious...
She is a Woman...
She is Life...
RESPECT HER
You can feel her CARE in a form of a Sister
You can feel her WARMTH in a form of a Friend
You can feel her PASSION in a form of a Beloved
You can feel her DEDICATION in a form of a Wife
You can feel her DIVINITY in a form of a Mother
You can feel her BLESSINGS in a form of a Grandmother
Yet she is so Tough too...
Her heart is so Tender...
So Naughty...
So Charming...
So Sharing...
So Melodious...
She is a Woman...
She is Life...
RESPECT HER
Tuesday, February 26, 2008
DESA PANDAN APARTMENT UNTUK DIJUAL
Desa Pandan apartment untuk dijual. Block G
Convenient location 5 mins to town, 5 mins to Ampang, 5 mins to Cheras, etc
Front and back extension.
Ground Floor, 3 rooms, 2 bathrooms, renovated.
Selling Price RM185k neg.
Please call lina 019-2436875
Friday, February 22, 2008
Senggal Sungguh
Pagi ni aku hangin seperti biasa bila janji tak ditepati. Tensen sungguh aku. Bila marah muka aku cemberut!!! Tak manis langsung. Dah jalan sikit baru aku ok. Dia seperti biasa nak gurau2.
aku ni kalau dah lambat jgn kata gurau, cakap pun tak nak. HANGIIIIIIINNNN satu badan. Bila perasaaan marah meluap, tuhan nak tunjukkan angin tu padaku pada dia, bedebuk aku jatuh atas jalan sebab brek mengejut dan minyak licin.
Kaki dia terseliuh, kulit tangan rabak and aku tangan dan pinggang sakit. Yang teruk dia laa.
Adoi sakitnya.HAMPEH tul. Kete yg brek mengejut didepan terus belah tak pandang belakang. mamat yg naik estima belakang kami ni keluar tolong angkat kami pembonceng dan penunggang ke tepi. siap tanya ok ke tak, nak i hantar u pg spital ke tak. dah yg bestnya dia ni bukan melayu yg keje eksekutif kat Philips. pada yang pandang memandang sambil lalu tu i memang respect dia anak melayu yg tinggi adat budi bahasa dari belakang mati kot.
Sungguh menyedihkan kerana aku tak boleh di belenggu amarah yang ekstrim. Jadi cacat tangan ku. Jam favourite aku calar. Tapi yang tak tahan tgk muka dia yg berkeriut tahan sakit.
Sapa suruh buat aku marah. Baru dua hari lepas buat hal, pagi ni buat lagi. Bukan aku tak pemaaf tapi mengulanggi perbuatan yg aku benci sungguh SENGGAL tau!!!
aku ni kalau dah lambat jgn kata gurau, cakap pun tak nak. HANGIIIIIIINNNN satu badan. Bila perasaaan marah meluap, tuhan nak tunjukkan angin tu padaku pada dia, bedebuk aku jatuh atas jalan sebab brek mengejut dan minyak licin.
Kaki dia terseliuh, kulit tangan rabak and aku tangan dan pinggang sakit. Yang teruk dia laa.
Adoi sakitnya.HAMPEH tul. Kete yg brek mengejut didepan terus belah tak pandang belakang. mamat yg naik estima belakang kami ni keluar tolong angkat kami pembonceng dan penunggang ke tepi. siap tanya ok ke tak, nak i hantar u pg spital ke tak. dah yg bestnya dia ni bukan melayu yg keje eksekutif kat Philips. pada yang pandang memandang sambil lalu tu i memang respect dia anak melayu yg tinggi adat budi bahasa dari belakang mati kot.
Sungguh menyedihkan kerana aku tak boleh di belenggu amarah yang ekstrim. Jadi cacat tangan ku. Jam favourite aku calar. Tapi yang tak tahan tgk muka dia yg berkeriut tahan sakit.
Sapa suruh buat aku marah. Baru dua hari lepas buat hal, pagi ni buat lagi. Bukan aku tak pemaaf tapi mengulanggi perbuatan yg aku benci sungguh SENGGAL tau!!!
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
Big God!
although she is younger than me a few months but she has shown the strength of being big sister to me in terms of life, affection, love and other things.. I may be strong in having my life path lead as I am now while she is still struggling to find her way. But she has her strong wit to bring her to success accordingly. Her advice, her voice, her way sometimes goes deep into my brain, my heart. Its difficult to just put her away.
I may sometimes feels so low but she knows how to cheer me up, i may at times pull away from her because im sad, but she knows where to bring me up with what i likes and what to forgets. I hurts me for not being there for here.
Today she told me what she says to her boyfriend..."I told G, 2 of my best fren retract from me faraway when i said im leaving for Jakarta..."
I almost breakdown to tears but I hold it tight to myself not letting her know that its is painful to let her go, but thats what is making her happy then she deserve it in her life.
Yeah... I've been thinking about it.. Dulu belum kahwin, kita tak pernah sangka kita boleh ada 3-4 org anak. Now look at us. We end up having those little monsters that we cannot live without them now.
God will never give you something that you cannot handle / manage. Remember that. I always feel that you merendah diri unneccessarily (esp with me). Stand tall, walk proud. You are worthy as a person as I am. Nobody is better than anyone else or deserve to be happier than anyone else.
:-) your sis.
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VERY NICE AND TRUE!!!
Two men went fishing. One was an experienced fisherman, the other wasn't. Every time the experienced fisherman caught a big fish, he put it in his ice chest to keep it fresh. Whenever the inexperienced fisherman caught a big fish, he threw it back.
The experienced fisherman watched this go on all day and finally got tired of seeing the man waste good fish. "Why do you keep throwing back all the big fish you catch?" he asked.
The inexperienced fisherman replied, "I only have a small frying pan."
Sometimes, like that fisherman, we throwback the big plans, big dreams, big jobs, big opportunities that God gives us. Our faith is too small.
We laugh at that fisherman who didn't figure out that all he needed was a bigger frying pan, yet how ready are we to increase the size of our faith?
Whether it's a problem or a possibility, God will never give you anything bigger than you can handle. That means we can confidently walk into anything God brings our way.
REMEMBER:Stop telling God you've got big problems.Tell your problems you've got a BIG GOD!
I may sometimes feels so low but she knows how to cheer me up, i may at times pull away from her because im sad, but she knows where to bring me up with what i likes and what to forgets. I hurts me for not being there for here.
Today she told me what she says to her boyfriend..."I told G, 2 of my best fren retract from me faraway when i said im leaving for Jakarta..."
I almost breakdown to tears but I hold it tight to myself not letting her know that its is painful to let her go, but thats what is making her happy then she deserve it in her life.
Yeah... I've been thinking about it.. Dulu belum kahwin, kita tak pernah sangka kita boleh ada 3-4 org anak. Now look at us. We end up having those little monsters that we cannot live without them now.
God will never give you something that you cannot handle / manage. Remember that. I always feel that you merendah diri unneccessarily (esp with me). Stand tall, walk proud. You are worthy as a person as I am. Nobody is better than anyone else or deserve to be happier than anyone else.
:-) your sis.
Embedded email address
VERY NICE AND TRUE!!!
Two men went fishing. One was an experienced fisherman, the other wasn't. Every time the experienced fisherman caught a big fish, he put it in his ice chest to keep it fresh. Whenever the inexperienced fisherman caught a big fish, he threw it back.
The experienced fisherman watched this go on all day and finally got tired of seeing the man waste good fish. "Why do you keep throwing back all the big fish you catch?" he asked.
The inexperienced fisherman replied, "I only have a small frying pan."
Sometimes, like that fisherman, we throwback the big plans, big dreams, big jobs, big opportunities that God gives us. Our faith is too small.
We laugh at that fisherman who didn't figure out that all he needed was a bigger frying pan, yet how ready are we to increase the size of our faith?
Whether it's a problem or a possibility, God will never give you anything bigger than you can handle. That means we can confidently walk into anything God brings our way.
REMEMBER:Stop telling God you've got big problems.Tell your problems you've got a BIG GOD!
Halal...
Banyak benda yang diragui sekarang berada dipasaran. Dimana letaknya haq seorang Islam dan kita sebagai pengguna. Dimana haq pemimpin untuk menjaga haq-haq masyarakat pengguna yang mana mereka sendiri adalah pengguna itu???
KUALA LUMPUR 19 Feb 2008: Timbalan Pengarah Jabatan Kebudayaan, Kesenian, Pelancongan dan Sukan, Dewan Bandaraya Kuala Lumpur (DBKL), Zainuddin Md Zin, semalam memfailkan saman kira-kira RM5 juta terhadap tiga pembekal dan penjual ayam, termasuk Tesco Stores (Malaya) Sdn Bhd kerana menjual ayam yang tidak disembelih. Zainuddin, 55, menamakan Perak Duck Food Industries Sdn Bhd, CKL Marketing Sdn Bhd dan Tesco sebagai defendan pertama, kedua dan ketiga dalam saman yang difailkan menerusi Tetuan M K Othman & Co di Pejabat Pendaftaran Mahkamah Tinggi Jalan Duta, di sini. Beliau dalam tuntutannya memohon ganti rugi am, ganti rugi teruk dan ganti rugi teladan yang bernilai RM5 juta kerana defendan pertama dan kedua berlaku khianat dengan membekalkan makanan berlogo halal kepada semua umat Islam. Di samping itu, beliau turut memohon mahkamah untuk menghalang ketiga-tiga defendan untuk menjual, mengedar, memasar atau menyebabkan produk itu berada di pasaran.
Plaintif juga meminta mahkamah mengarahkan ketiga-tiga defendan memohon maaf kepada semua umat Islam di negara ini berterusan selama tiga hari di muka hadapan akhbar utama bahasa Melayu dengan menanggung segala kos perbelanjaan. Dalam writ saman berkenaan, beliau juga mendakwa defendan pertama gagal memastikan keadaan ayam yang dihasilkan tidak disembelih mengikut Syara’ dan tidak prihatin serta sensitif kepada kehendak umat Islam. Defendan kedua pula didakwa secara cuai menyelia pengeluaran produk yang berlogo halal pada bungkusan itu, manakala defendan ketiga gagal melakukan sebarang pemeriksaan bagi memastikan keselamatan halal produk itu sebelum dipasarkan. “Pada 28 Oktober tahun lalu saya membeli tiga ayam selasih di Tesco dan mendapati ayam yang dilabelkan logo halal tidak disembelih dengan betul mengikut prosedur penyembelihan.
“Sangkaan saya ternyata betul apabila PPIM mengesahkan ayam yang dibeli tidak halal kerana urat leher ayam yang disembelih itu tidak putus,” katanya.
KUALA LUMPUR 19 Feb 2008: Timbalan Pengarah Jabatan Kebudayaan, Kesenian, Pelancongan dan Sukan, Dewan Bandaraya Kuala Lumpur (DBKL), Zainuddin Md Zin, semalam memfailkan saman kira-kira RM5 juta terhadap tiga pembekal dan penjual ayam, termasuk Tesco Stores (Malaya) Sdn Bhd kerana menjual ayam yang tidak disembelih. Zainuddin, 55, menamakan Perak Duck Food Industries Sdn Bhd, CKL Marketing Sdn Bhd dan Tesco sebagai defendan pertama, kedua dan ketiga dalam saman yang difailkan menerusi Tetuan M K Othman & Co di Pejabat Pendaftaran Mahkamah Tinggi Jalan Duta, di sini. Beliau dalam tuntutannya memohon ganti rugi am, ganti rugi teruk dan ganti rugi teladan yang bernilai RM5 juta kerana defendan pertama dan kedua berlaku khianat dengan membekalkan makanan berlogo halal kepada semua umat Islam. Di samping itu, beliau turut memohon mahkamah untuk menghalang ketiga-tiga defendan untuk menjual, mengedar, memasar atau menyebabkan produk itu berada di pasaran.
Plaintif juga meminta mahkamah mengarahkan ketiga-tiga defendan memohon maaf kepada semua umat Islam di negara ini berterusan selama tiga hari di muka hadapan akhbar utama bahasa Melayu dengan menanggung segala kos perbelanjaan. Dalam writ saman berkenaan, beliau juga mendakwa defendan pertama gagal memastikan keadaan ayam yang dihasilkan tidak disembelih mengikut Syara’ dan tidak prihatin serta sensitif kepada kehendak umat Islam. Defendan kedua pula didakwa secara cuai menyelia pengeluaran produk yang berlogo halal pada bungkusan itu, manakala defendan ketiga gagal melakukan sebarang pemeriksaan bagi memastikan keselamatan halal produk itu sebelum dipasarkan. “Pada 28 Oktober tahun lalu saya membeli tiga ayam selasih di Tesco dan mendapati ayam yang dilabelkan logo halal tidak disembelih dengan betul mengikut prosedur penyembelihan.
“Sangkaan saya ternyata betul apabila PPIM mengesahkan ayam yang dibeli tidak halal kerana urat leher ayam yang disembelih itu tidak putus,” katanya.
Monday, February 18, 2008
Reunion!!!
Mood: Fabulous
It happens on one fine nite last 2 weeks where my kids were out for simple dinner in Nasi Lemak Panas Desa Pandan in a corner between CIMB and Ampang Point Mall. I bump into Nona and Norjie who was my ex-schoolmate some 20 donkey years ago.
It was the beginning of the whole reunion happen last week 16 Feb. We have fabulous time, hillarious, and most of all after so long we meet again having the same old time with some extra baggage carried with us along. After karaoke we adjourn to KRB at Kosas RiverBank which was later I understand own by one of our frens brother. (erm i kene cari lokasi baru nak hangout with ehem2 ;-)). Then later to watch pocho-pocho dance in WangsaMaju. After sending few girls home we reside to Restaurant Maju in Kg Pandan for early breakfast.
But all in all we are having very good time till morning. Here are some pictures that i captured. We change numbers so that it wont end just there. Hopefully after this one, another gathering with more people coming.
Can't wait but patience will do good.
Here are some of the pix edited for all of you...
To JJ, Norjie, Jijah, Nita, Sham, Ita, Teh, Hani and especially for Nona yang menaja Karaoke, cake and to food contributor especially kacang so banyak one!!!! Thank you so much for bringing the events and memories of Convent Peel Road. Looking forward to more excitement with you again.
Thursday, February 14, 2008
Valentines???
Current mood: crushed
Category: Romance and Relationships
Its Valentine today.
No one has ever affects me for the past 39 years I live. I dated my ex once in my lifetime for Valentine during our last last years of marriage. No flowers, no chocolate but expensive dinner yes. Once in lifetime thats it but it is sweet.
He dont appreciates dates, anniversaries, birthdays as I do but he make the effort to come and sit eye to eye with me enjoying looking others. Thats about it with him.
Today i received hand delivered roses and chocolates. I was taken by surprise, speechless altho he lied but he surprise me with sweet moment.
I dont have anything for you tho! Do i buy for him too??? Im supposed to be pleased right???
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